Saturday, November 26, 2011

Driver?! - I'm A Top!

This topic is something similar to this post : http://simonlover83.blogspot.com/2009/11/waiter-im-top.html

This question arises while we were driving down to Melaka for a short excursion, a few weeks back.  The funny thing was, even though it's the Horny BF's car, yet..I'm the one driving instead of him! -- So, this made me wonder, whether, the statement below, which is accepted universally, in our Gay World, is really true or it's just a perception instead?!!!

"The Guy Who Drives Is Usually The TOP, While The One Who Lets The Other Half Do The Driving, Is Usually The BOTTOM!





For those innocent gay boys out there, [ Yeah, puhlezz....!!! Gay boys nowadays a re a lucky lot! -- I have an MSN-FUBU buddy ( Hahaha .. My cyber FUBU friend -- Always fuck my "brain" with his endless sexual encounter stories with twinks from 16-19 years old! - And yet, you believe there are still naive, 18-year-old boys out there nowadays?!! ] -- Here's a short definition of what is Top / Bottom in the Gay World:

A TOP

A top is a person who engages in the penetrative role in sexual intercourse, most often with his penis during anal sex or oral sex. Top is also used as a verb meaning "to penetrate another." Top may also describe a broader personal identity involving dominance in a romantic and/or sexual relationship; however, this stipulation is not a requisite element of being a top.

A BOTTOM


A bottom is someone who receives penetration during intercourse, usually through the anus during anal sex or is the less dominant individual. Bottom is also used as a verb meaning "to be penetrated by another, whether anally or orally." Bottom may also describe a wider social context of submission within a romantic and sexual element, although this element does not apply to all people who prefer to bottom.


The man on the right, is the "TOP" while the man lying down is the "BOTTOM".

If you look at the definition above:
"The Guy Who Drives Is Usually The TOP, While The One Who Lets The Other Half Do The Driving, Is Usually The BOTTOM!

because Gay Tops are expected to be the tough-talking, manly Gay Man, instead of the submissive, mild-mannered, slightly effeminate Gay Bottom --- and Driving a Car, is like a ... GUY's thing! ... Ya'know?

However, I'm the one who usually drives each time when we go out dating. Reasons: 
1} It's my car.....



2) I'm technologically disabled..... I'm lousy at GPS...Hahaha .... It gives me a headache each time, from switching it on to searching a location! 

3) I drive slower and safer than the Horny One...He's a devil when he's on the wheels!  
It's a norm for me to keep scolding him each time he drives....

4) I like to be on the "receiving" end...Tsk, tsk, tsk....

5) And I like my "COOL" look on the wheels...Especially with my sunglasses - on!!! 
Hahaha ......"Perasan" betul!

But, the question here which we need to investigate, is still,

"The Guy Who Drives Is Usually The TOP, While The One Who Lets The Other Half Do The Driving, Is Usually The BOTTOM!

So,guys! Please participate in the poll on the left sidebar, of your stand regarding the Statement above!
Do you agree / disagree  or half-half? 

Cheers!

4 comments:

William said...

Wrong in my case!

thompsonboy said...

wrong here....not like I have much of a choice but I care too much for him to let him do anything at all. I guess there's a top and bottom in all of us...doesnt need to be sex. Sometimes I give in and sometimes I take charge...no reflection of bedroom preferences

Clyde Lim said...
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Clyde Lim said...

In my case, the top drives me around most of the time. I'm kinda a bad driver. lol