Guys with Tongue Out Selfies

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Random Malaysian Swimmers!

Today has been a very tiring day for me. Woke up at 6.30 am to fetch my brother and wife in KLIA at 8.30am. Then worked 9 hours in my peaceful workplace before my brother came and fetch me from work where I brought him & my family to Puchong's famous Yong Tau Foo shop ( which was introduced by my cute didi, Ali aka Sen Sen ).. And now, it's already 12.30am...Need to get some rest before continue working tomorrow, again! -- Where is my Sugar Daddy when I needed him most?!!!! --- Hahaha.

( p/s: At this point of writing, da Horny BF has not replied or sent any smses to me since going out with a Horny Bottom at 7pm, whom I've defeated, in terms of the sexiest & skimpiest swim trunks at Empire's Fitness First swimming pool a few days back.....Hmmmmm.........Infidelity is banging on my doorstep?!! )

Anyway, here's a simple post for today....Some eye candies of our Malaysian Swimmers for you guys to oogle at. What's better to start it off with Malaysia's Best Swimmer at the moment, Daniel Bego! ( I have featured him once before, way back in March 2010 over HERE ). Enjoy!

Daniel Bego has one of the sexiest treasure trail and perkiest chest among Malaysian Swimmers! Yummylicious indeed!

The only reason why I put up this blurred picture is because...........................

( To those who can guess correctly by leaving a comment in my blog will get a surprise gift from Simon Lover? Tsk, tsk, tsk..See who can reads my mind well! )

Malaysia's Water Polo Team!

Well, I guess it's time for me to sleep - jor. It's 12.45 am d....Sigh. How I wish I can get my tanned body once again! Must try to get some time off to go for tanning session at Kelana Jaya!

Are you Good Enough to spot who's Top @ Bottom?! - Answers

In my previous post, we have seen which countries have the most Tops or Bottom, where surprisingly, Malaysia was ranked 3rd in the world for having the Most Bottoms among gays - Malaysia Boleh?

So, in today's nonsensical post, I shall test your ability to detect which one is a Top or Bottom!

I know, it does not matter who's Top or Bottom in a relationship, where respect & trust play an important role in a successful relationship.Take this cute couple for instance, in their profiles on one of the most popular gay personals website, both of them mentioned that they are versatiles. Meaning, they can be Top-Bottom, or top-top or bottom-bottom - depending on their sexual situations!

We shall not discuss about that for today, instead...We shall focus on our ability to detect which Guy is a Top or Bottom,by judging from the first impression! Being a bottom, when we have an interest on a potential gay, most of the time we will wish that the guy is a Top, so they can xxxx us to the heaven and it's the same for Tops as well, where they would want to know some willing holes to be xxxx-ed like nobody's business!

However, by just looking at the guys from afar and not knowing them, how often do we guessed correctly of their sexual preferences?! Some hunks can be so muscular but their characteristics & movements make them more of a bottom instead - while some effeminate guys can bring the house down on a hunky stud!

Furthermore, for those who are still sexually active, they don't just play one role in their lifetime - where I'm, sure they have tried topping or bottoming at least once - and the question of being a Top or Bottom is more of a preference and also depending on situations as well. For example, we might see Malaysia's PluBoy ( http://pluboy.blogspot.com ) topping Singapore's SgBoy ( http://sgboy01.blogspot.com ) instead - leh?! Who knows, right?!  

So, without further ado, let's us see how good you are - in determining the 24 guys below, taken from a popular Gay Personal website, who is Top or Bottom --- Mind you, they are equally distributed with 12 Tops & 12 Bottoms. -- But some of the pictures are definitely giveaways/bonus to you guys! Hahaha ---- Do leave some comments ya!

And for those who doesn't know what is Top or Bottom -- Please have a look of the sexy videos below, where a Hunky Hong Kong Stud, "Topping" his Bottom Boyfriend ya!

JENG, JENG, JENG!

and THE ANSWERS ARE........

The Guys In ODD numbers are all TOPS while the BOTTOMS are the EVEN numbered Guys! 

Many of you chose #4 but sadly, you guys might end up having mutual blowjobs/jerk-offs nia. Such a waste hor?! Haha.

p/s: It's very difficult to determine which one is Top/Bottom right...But in reality, it's actually quite easy to detect one, based on our own instincts? -- Just that the guys above i purposely made it harder to you guys -- with the exception in #16 lar - The ultra-typical bottom-looking boy.

Where In The World Do Tops Have The Best Chance of Finding a Bottom?

This article is taken from the website www.manhuntdaily.com where they did a random survey with a global analysis of tops and bottoms recently ( 25 Aug 2010 )

Costa Rica leads the planet in men who want to pound butt, while Denmark claims the title of having the most willing participants to have exactly that done to them.

But if you guys take a closer look at the column for BOTTOMS -- What did you find?

-- Yup, surprise, surprise -- the word "MALAYSIA" is in the Top 3! Whoa..I didn't know that Malaysia has a lot of gays who prefer to be fucked instead?! -- So, do you guys agree that we, Malaysians, are a bunch of frenzy receivers or the result of the survey should be challenged instead?!

Hahahahaha. However, if we look at the complete list which comes with a percentage, below....

FROM TOP TO BOTTOM
(Numbers indicate percentage of tops)

1. Costa Rica – 62.37%
2. Venezuela – 61.73%
3. Cuba – 61.48%
4. Panama – 60.93%
5. Dominican Republic – 60.88%
6. Colombia – 59.54%
7. Portugal – 58.39%
8. Italy – 58.18%
9. Spain – 57.92%
10. Egypt – 57.71%
11. Argentina – 57.69%
12. India – 57.45%
13. Chile – 57.31%
14. Switzerland – 56.91%
15. New Zealand – 56.60%
16. South Africa – 56.58%
17. Brazil – 56.08%
18. Greece – 55.95%
19. Israel – 55.43%
20. Ireland – 55.12%
21. Philippines – 54.63%
22. Belgium – 54.46%
23. Australia – 54.02%
24. Thailand – 53.41%
25. Mexico – 53.17%
26. Netherlands – 52.95%
27. USA – 52.80%
28. South Korea – 52.26%
29. Canada – 52.01%
30. France – 51.79%
31. Sweden – 51.65%
32. Peru – 51.05%
33. England – 50.64%
34. Germany – 49.56%
35. China – 49.48%
36. Indonesia – 48.92%
37. Russia – 48.69%
38. Malaysia – 48.51%
39. Taiwan – 46.95%

40. Denmark – 46.40%

The percentage of Tops in Malaysia is 48.51%, while for Bottoms is 51.49% -- Meaning, it is still equally distributed among Tops & Bottoms - ma. 1 Top for everyone 1 Bottom. Fair and square right?! 

Well, at least the survey helps to highlight and increase the exposure of gays in Malaysia to the world. Hahahaha.

For more surveys, you guys can still check out my old post where I nonsensically did a post of

 Gay Sex-Role Preferences -- Top / Bottom / Versatile -- Distribution Among States In Malaysia!

( Click here: http://simonlover83.blogspot.com/2009/09/gay-sex-role-preference-top-bottom.html )

With that, I wish all my Muslim friends, Selamat Hari Raya and Happy Holidays to every one as well. Muacks from Simon Lover!

Total Body-Foreplay-Sex!

Here's an interesting article that i found on the net.

Total Body Sex

To be an incredible lover, it's key to know the secrets to male arousal.

NOSE

As his circulation speeds up during the excitement phase, the beak nose which is packed with nerve endings becomes supersensitive. Run your lips down the bridge of his nose. His nasal passages will also stiffen & swell, making it harder for him to get air. That's why he might start breathing through the mouth.

EYES

Viewing a sexy sight activates the area of his brain associated with DESIRE. So, give hime eye candy during FOREPLAY, e.g. slowly undressing in front of him. His pupils dilate when he sees something that turns him on -- If you notice them enlarging, chances are, he digs what you're doing.

CHEST

With him buiding excitement, blood races from his muscles to his skin's surface, turning his chest warm. His nipples will plump up, growing FIRM and sensitive. Lightly SUCK them -- every sensation feels magnified for him. The more aroused he gets, the more stimulation he craves. So, gently PINCH his headlights when he's closer to orgasm.

HEART

At the onset of arousal, his heart beats fast and hard to build up enough sexual tension for him to climax. The upshot is that as soon as he has gained enough steam, he'll want it to finish ASAP. Switching positions every few minutes to let his heartbeat slow down will help him last longer. At climax, his pulse jumps to 180-200 beats per min vs 60-90 bpm when resting, then gradually return to normal after 10-15 mins.

STOMACH

There's a reason why he feels butterflies in his stomach around a guy when he has a thing for. Once he's turned on, veins ih his gut constrict and his blood is rerouted to his penis & surrounding muscles. That rapid outflow of blood triggers a fluttery sensation in his stomach. Trace a line with your tongue from the tip of his penis to his abd to enhance tinginess.

ADRENAL GLANDS

These glands releases adrenaline hormones into his bloodstream, causing his pulse & breathing rate to speed & his lungs to expand. This boost his energy level while making him less inhibited -- Which is why you shouldn't freak out if he says something surprisingly dirty during sex or acts wilder than expected, like spanking you mid-action.

PENIS

When a guy gets excited, blood rushes into the PENIS. Some penises triple in size while others barely grow. Once he's at full mass, blood continues to pump in and keep him hard. The underside & penis head trap less blood, making them softer & more sensitive. Tantalizing these spots will make him feel incredible! Max out their pleasure potential during oral sex - where alternating between sucking & tongue swirling around the head while at the same time, gliding your hand up & down his shaft with firm pressure to the underside.

THIGHS

Because his upper thighs are right next to his groin, the extra blood flow to his genitals spills over into them, making them extremely sensitive ( especially his inner legs, where the sking is thinner ). Before sex, plant light kisses or run your fingernails over the area. Once you're having intercourse, his thighs contract each time he thrusts and then tense up forcefully when he climaxes. Since they will feel tight after orgasm, give him a soothing thigh massage to relax his muscles.

TESTICLES

Within minutes after he starts to get aroused, his testes become more sensitive than normal. At the same time, his scrotum contracts, pulling his boys up and closer to his body. Caress them softly and slowly in the beginning, as though you were handing a pair of delicate eggs. You'll notice that the more you stimulate them, the higher they'll climb. Once he's really worked up, his family jewels can take a bit firmer pressure, so hold them slightly tighter. When he orgasms, muscles located near the back of his scrotum contract to help push semen into his penis. Gently pulling his testes away from his body as he tumnles over the edge boasts the feel-good effect for some guys.

BRAIN

His brain releases chemicals that affect what he feels and craves. In the arousal phase, dopamines are released and this puts him in a state of bliss - That's why, if there's a daring move you want to try, go for it because at this time, he's open to any experimentation.

EARS

Because the ears are packed with nerve endings, have thinner skin and contains no muscle, they're hypersensitive to touch. On top of that, when he's aroused and the blood rushes to the area, they become superstimulated. Gently nibbling the ridges and lobes of his ears before sex will definitely fire him up!

MOUTH

During the excitement stage, his saliva changes, becoming thicker and the flow decreases. Give him deep kiss, running your tongue along his teeth and the roof of his mouth, to make him less perched.

SPINE

The nervous system located along his spine acts like a traffic cop for his brain, directing it to fill his penis with blood and help him stay erect; speed up his pulse ; and rapidly & forcefully contract his muscles until he climaxes. The spinal nerves also connect directly to those in his penis. So, during foreplay, glide your chest and erect penis up and down his back or swirl your tongue from top to bottom - he'll get a rush down below!

BUTT

His butt ( especially his anus ) is full of nerves that increase in sensitivity from innitial arousal to climax. So, as long as he's in the game, give this zone the sexy attention it deserves. Rimming his ass with your sexy tongue by slowly starting from outwards towards the ass hole will definitely give him an out of this world excitement!

Anyone's up for a rimming? Hehe

PERINEUM

When he first gets excited, this smooth patch of skin between his testicles & anus swells up into a puffy hotspot and remains ultrasensitive. Putting firm pressure on the area ( rub it in circular motion with ur fingers ) during foreplay sex will feel incredible for him. Bonus - Pushing his perinuem also stimulates his prostate gland - i.e - the Male G-SPOT - It's like a pleasure double play.

FEET

Suprisingly, his feet - and especially his toes - have a neurological connection with his PENIS. The area of his brain that regulates foot sensation is situated right next to the region that controls his erection. Touching his feet at any time during the action will send serious sensations to his penis. As he climaxes, the powerful contractions might trigger his feet to arch and shake uncontrollably and his toes to curl! - That's why it's called "toe-curling" sex!

 

And so, guys...Mind sharing whether if you are a Nose-Guy, or a Nipple Chest-Guy or others during Foreplay Sex, by participating in the poll on my left sidebar ya! Muacks from Simon Lover!
( p/s: Just a teaser for you guys....I'm a TESTICLES-GUY.....Hahahahahahahaha! )

Fridae.com MSM Sex Survey 2009 - Final Report.

Headline : Taken from www.fridae.com
For full report, please visit : http://www.msmsexsurvey.com/

One in five MSM do not use condoms consistently with casual male partners: 2009 MSM Sex Survey

Fridae.com 2009 MSM Sex Survey – Final Report

Methodology :  
In March and April 2009, an English language survey was conducted online (www.msmsexsurvey.com). 7993 MSM and TG completed the questionnaire.

Demographics

• The average age of respondents was 33 years (range 15-74). 
• Most of the participants live in Singapore, Malaysia, USA, Australia, Hong Kong, Thailand and China. 
• 5387 (67.4%) reported university education or higher.

Identity & socialisation

• 6558 (82%) of the respondents were gay-identified
• 1221 (15%) bisexual. 
• 644 (8.1%) reported being uncomfortable with their sexuality, and 
• 247 (3.1%) had no gay friends.

Sex & relationships during the past 6 months

• 560 (7%) had sex with a woman in the past 6 months. 
• 1057 (13.2%) did not have any male sexual contact, 
• 1906 (23.8%) had one partner, 
• 2841 (35.5%) had 2 to 5 partners and 
• 2189 (27.3%) had 6 or more partners.

• 3356 (44.5%) of the respondents are currently in a relationship. 
• Of these, 1699 (48%) were for more than 2 years, 
• and 1496 (42%) were sexually exclusive (sex only with one regular partner)

Sexual behaviour during the past 6 months

• For male to male sex, the survey differentiated between regular (boyfriends and lovers), casual, and commercial sex partners. 
• After excluding those who a) did not have any male sexual contact; b) did not have any male partners in the respective categories; c) did not have anal sex and; d) always used a condom for anal sex,
• Iit showed that 2455 (31%) of the respondents were not using condoms consistently with a regular male partner, and;
• 1664 (21%) were not using condoms consistently with their casual male partners. 
• 816 (10%) did not use condoms consistently with both their regular and casual partners. 
• 253 (3%) of respondents did not use condoms consistently with their commercial sex partners.

• The main reasons for regular partners to forego condom use was both partners share the same HIV status (positive or negative), and because they felt condoms made sex less enjoyable. 
• For casual partners, 20% did not use condoms after disclosing their HIV status, 17% on impulse, 13% assumed the other person’s HIV status was the same as their own, and 7% because their partner did not ask to use one. Only 5% said being “high” was a reason for not using condoms.

Venues for meeting men

• The Internet was the most common way for respondents to meet other men for sex (4936, 72%), 
• saunas (2615, 38%) and 
• bars and clubs (1938, 28%). 

 Sexually transmitted infections, drugs & travel

• 3873 (48%) of respondents had an STI test in the past 6 months, and 1958 (24%) were diagnosed or treated for an STI during that period. 
• 1050 (13%) reported consuming recreational drugs (e.g. Viagra, ecstasy, poppers, methamphetamines) for sex. 
• 5121 (64%) of respondents travelled to a foreign country in the past 6 months, during which 2096 (41%) of them had protected anal sex and 506 (10%) had unprotected anal sex with a casual partner they met on their travels. 
• 1098 (21%) attended a circuit or dance party.

HIV testing

• 2039 (26%) of respondents have never had an HIV test, with 4066 (51%) taking a test in the past 12 months. Of the 2039 who have never been tested, 46% reported a low personal risk assessment as the reason for not getting a test. Conversely, 14% felt it was likely they were already positive, and 30% either did not want to think about it, or were worried about confidentiality of the test results, and the stigma and discrimination they would face if tested positive. 9% did not know where they could go for a test. 
• Of the 5954 who have had an HIV test, 295 (5%) self-reported as HIV positive. Of these, 184 (62%) are currently on anti-retroviral treatment, and 150 (51%) have achieved an undetectable viral load. 135 (46%) of the positive MSM are currently in a relationship, 40 (30%) of which are with another HIV positive man.

Disclosure

• Whilst 5177 (65%) of those surveyed felt that the best time to discuss one’s HIV status was before sex, only 1643 (21%) actually did so.

HIV acceptance

• 3109 (39%) of those surveyed personally knew someone who was HIV positive (friend, partner, co-worker, family member). Acceptance of HIV positive people was generally high, with most people willing to befriend, care for, and work with someone HIV positive. 2439 (31%) would also have sex with someone who had disclosed their positive status to them, and 1115 (14%) have already ever had sex with someone they knew was positive. 

Conclusions

1. Not all MSM and TG are at equal risk for HIV infection. Men who abstain from sex, do not have anal sex, or use a condom consistently with all their sex partners when they have anal sex are at little to no risk of being infected with HIV.
2. Those most at immediate risk are the 21% of men who have unprotected sex with casual partners (1664 of 7993) and 3% with commercial partners (253 of 7993).
3. Unprotected anal sex amongst men in regular relationships is high (2455 of 3556 in a current relationship do not use condoms consistently). This is a cause for concern when either or both partners is also having unprotected anal sex with casual partners (816 of 3556). This puts not only themselves, but also their regular partners at risk.
4. Recent HIV testing (within the last 12 months) was also low, and almost a quarter of those surveyed had never been tested. A significant number who have never been tested, or tested recently continue to have unprotected anal sex with casual partners (684 of 7993).
5. The level of HIV acceptance in the community is relatively high, but despite this, the degree of HIV disclosure remains low.

( p/s: Simon Lover will be going for a short getaway until the weekend - Tis is actually a scheduled post as i'm actually on leave since 30th ady. Hehehe. I would like to wish you guys an early HAPPY NEW YEAR Celebration 2010 and Safe Sex always ya! Muacks ! )

Gay Sex-Role Preference - Top / Bottom / Versatile -- Distribution Among States In Malaysia

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